Depressed WAW, digging in, learning about myself

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What do vets think about this: Is selling our house going to make the "road home" rockier for WAW? Keeping it is a very difficult option. She is really pushing for the sale, followed by split finances. So keeping our sitch the same as it is now is not an option. The only way I could afford it on my own is to rent out a bedroom. But it would have to be someone I know and trust because I have a young daughter and no separate guest suite. And I don't know anyone currently looking for an apt.

But if this is going to be a serious road block for a reconciliation, then I would possibly pursue it. My current plan is to move into my mom's basement for 3-4 months after the house sells, just to save some cash and pay off any remaining debts from getting the house ready to sell. Then I'll look for a place of my own.