I have read Sandi's rules, which I should probably print and post somewhere so I can refer to often. I go to sleep with the pain. I wake up with the pain.
Let me expand on something that someone told me just recently. Take the 37 rules and change/edit the word spouse and the pronouns to your husband's name. then you can save it or print it and read over it daily. I also save some of the better advice, paragraphs, and quotes I find in the threads and save them to a word document. I also edit these to fit me directly inserting my wife's name where applicable. I find that this helps me greatly when I read them back over.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
