is it just me? or is there something not right with him asking us (DD & I) to join his family for Thanksgiving dinner... and yet, just now tell me to meet him there? this is likely because he is trying to squeeze one more work thing in his day that makes sense to his schedule.... but, the message its sends me & my mom aren't quite right. He invited, he should be taking us. He mentioned that this way if my DD wants to leave early she can, and he will take me back.

Also, my DD prefers that she drive as she does not want to show up as a "happy family" when we are not. She calls us fake. She is really against us being there, if we are not confirmed that we are piecing/working on us.

It would have been preferable that I get to comment to him that we would drive on our own (respecting DD), but it got taken away from me... and now I'm feeling out of sorts.

UGGHHHH.... venting (letting it go)

Last edited by makingmagic; 10/12/14 05:01 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)