my W left the family home 4 weeks ago and i have gone dark . i believe she is continuing an A in secret allthough im not sure why in secret as she has left but I have my ideas.
in the four weeks i recieved one text from W on my birthday wishing me a happy birthday and saying about the great years we had and how she was sorry for messing this one up.
and i sent her one text last week asking how the cat was that we had just dropped round at MIL where she is currently staying. she replied with a very pleasent text which i didnt reply to .
i have up days and down days and the up days are getting more frequent that the down days.
i have to keep reminding myself to be patient and that this could take a long time.
on the subject of waiting it could be weeks but could be months im not sure how long and the time that i think i can wait keep changing sometimes im done then i think christmas maybe then i think forever . im sure that over the time my love for my W will slowly fade and then maybe if she doesnt return then i can get on with my new life i have made for myself.
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
