My suspicions regarding my W's plans this weekend came to fruition. She told me nothing about what she was planning with the kids when I asked her.
I called her yesterday afternoon to see how everything was going back home and to talk to the kids. She said that she was out "doing things" and that the kids are over her parents' house eating dinner.
I called her parents' house and my oldest picked up the phone. He said he had a fun day. I asked him where his mother went. He said that she went to work. I then asked to speak to my FIL.
When he got on the phone he was clearly irate. My Wife basically dumped the kids on them on a whim's notice. She told them to keep the kids there overnight. I asked him what happened and where she said she was going.
She went to the city with the OM. She's coming back tomorrow evening, shortly after I arrive from my weekend trip. I couldn't tell if he was angry at me, her, or the situation, or a combination of all.
Then my MIL got on the phone. She was much calmer than my FIL and explained that she and her H both voiced their displeasure to my W. She said my W basically ignored them and just left. I told them that I am sorry for this mess and I emphasized how this is unfair to them. I assured her that I will do my best to come back as early as possible on Sunday to get the kids.
I know that it's only been a couple weeks since the OM left (moved out of state) and that she may be going through withdrawls since she no longer sees him every day at work + 2 to 3 nights/week, etc.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
