Going Down Hill

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I’m having troubles try to tell W that I don’t want to move out and if she want space she will have to be the one moving out and that the kids will be staying with me. Everyone tells me that I should not move out friends, Lawyer, C. Loose time with kids; lose any gull if divorce happens. It is not my decision to split. She’s got to deal with the consequences.
But I want her back so much that I am worried that she will get mad, resentful and push her away further. Maybe she just needs space so…. Do I crater. Give her everything that she wants and hope she changes her mind? Or do I grow balls tell her how I think it should be and risk losing the love of my life?
I so much want to tell her how much I love her and do not want S to happen. That I know we did have issues during our marriage. That I believe they were small issues and just communication problems and that I believe we could be happier than ever before. I mentioned it before, but maybe she still doesn’t really believe me. But she seems confident that she does not love me, that there was too much damage done (what damage?) and that you either love someone or you don’t. If I could just go back a year and knew how much she didn’t feel loved this probably would have never happened.