It is actually money I could be putting away for college education. Just do not know how to handle. If I confront it will appear that I was spying, which I was a few months ago. The only thing I think of doing is 180, GAL, etc for a while longer and then if nothing changes so the "after LRT" and be firm. Maybe get some legal advice sometime soon.
W-44,M-57 Married 20 D-17,S-13 W and I own our own business and work together.