Originally Posted By: intime
Thank you..im trying!Something about seeing the two of them together just makes my blood boil, because just weeks ago it was her and I doing things together and I still got to come home to my husband! Now she has him and neither show any remorse! Sorry about your situation as well..I cant fathom putting anybody in this much heartache and not feeling guilty!


This causes me heartache just reading it. My heart aches and my wife is no where at all looking for an OM. To have that added sting that you know her wow. I completely agree and think it all the time. HOw can someone who once loved me (even professing it in text with me and on FB days before the walkaway) not think about the pain this causes.

The only advice I have would be for you to work on you. I am starting to belive that the best way for DB to work is for you to actual work it. Starting loving you for you. The happier you are with yourself thhe more the confidence will be seen as attractive to you H. Im no expert just as speaking from a guys perspective. My W had gained alot of weight due to health issues and early menopause. I always complimented her on the way she looked and on days when she was happy with her weight I was even more attracted to her. Will keep you in my prays.


Me 38
WAW 40
S 10
S 5
M 5 years
BD 10/04/14
S 10/04/14