Will post link to old thread when I can work out how to do it.
But thought of something tonight .
You reads lots about affairs dying and becoming booring after they are exposed etc . But in my situation W is continuing A in secret even though she has left the family home . I Think she is doing this to try and not upset or alienate the kids and MIL. What if OM is getting her to continue like this to keep the affair going ?
But I suppose the man question is that the A might not never end if they always keep it secret .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .