GB, your "haters gonna hate" reminded me of Taylor Swift's latest song. Listening to that (despite the controversy.. I'll confess I haven't even read up on what it is, but I know there is one) lifts my spirits when I start getting down about H and all that goes with it. As well as listening to TLC's "No Scrubs" ('cause that's about what my H sounds like right now.) And today at the gym I listened to some inspiration Kelly Clarkson breakup music. This is better than when this happened the last time and I listened to depressing songs - listening to songs that describe people drinking themself to death over the end of a relationship ("Whisky Lullaby", Brad Paisley) did not exactly help me with avoiding self-destructive behaviors. This time, only positive songs!!
Now I'm off to make a recipe that H would hate everything about it - fancy mac and cheese with onions and mushrooms. He doesn't like onions and mushrooms, and I imagine this is too unhealthy for him in his current diet. Trying to find the positives about him not being around
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
