Hey, my friend. I am so sorry you have found this out.
First of all, you do not have to decide anything today. If fact, it's best if you don't. You are reeling. You're dealing with a lot of other stuff. Just let this sit for right now.
It is all a part of this. I know your head knows that. Your heart, on the other hand, is hurting.
Getting rid of the marriage didnt work, the first ow didnt, this is next. Still bandaids as long as he doesnt look within.
As far as how long you can take this? You just continue to live your life. Get it where you want it to be. Make the decision from a place of strength.
Whatever you decide, whenever you decide it..I am behind you and you will have my support.
But seeing who you are, and getting to know you, I think you may need to see this play out a bit more.
Doesnt mean he isnt responsible for his actions, because he is. It just means that you continue on your path. Putting the focus on you and your children and your job search. Let him blow in the wind.
You do not want to sign papers or make any important decisions when you feel as you do right now, S.
I wish you didnt have to hurt like this. I wish MLC's never happen.
I hope you see how much you have grown and how worthy you are.
This is not a reflection on you. It is his brokenness.
