"HOW" should you go? Uh, take a cab or drive...I don't get the question. You have a phone, and your gov subsidizes it, so what's the hard part here? (Other than you DOING it, and not just talking)?
Do you want us to walk you through it or what? thinking of buying chocolates and flowers and saying its a shame that it didnt work out.. That ^^ is an odd combination of gestures, but it's also an obvious example of you pretending to detach, WHILE pursuing her, again. And wanting to engage with her, AGAIN, yet not even admitting it. And what does it have to do with YOU going to counseling? NOTHING....so why connect the two???
You won't go to counseling OR BENEFIT if it's all about HER STILL....OMG are you thinking that if you go to cousenling that THEN SHE will take you back?
She'll only take you back IF IF IF YOU CHANGE...and that requires counseling but it's not the reason you need counseling.
You NEED Counseling b/c you don't know how to make a move in your life, you are very insecure/confused, & b/c you are too co-dependent on your wife& .
im always here if you need me. And then go..
This is NOT about your wife. This is about YOU NEEDING HELP... It has nothing to do with her. She is not relevant to this. Don't make it about her.
Just get some help.
We've said this so many times. To have you reply about how you are going to TELL HER about it, and how you will GIVE HER FLOWERS, and pretend to break up (obvious maneuver to get a reaction from her, but
what surprises me most, is how you think WE won't see through it too.
Iwish, Man, I think You do not know how your actions appear to others...and That's a problem you need to solve for your whole life. Not merely the m.
Do You understand what I mean by that? Regardless, get to the nearest counselor you have and tell them about Your issues, not just your wife, okay? We support those who can/will help themselves.
Otherwise we are wasting our time (and yours). Fair enough?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
