A New Day

[Lifes Twists]

Wow, been all around that area. I have lived here for 46 years now, so seen a lot of changes.

Right now i am spinning a bit and trying to digest a phone call i got from my lawyer yesterday. He got a call from wifes lawyer. She is not able to participate in the divorce. Apparently she is going to sign a voluntary conservatorship allowing her father to take over all her affairs. The agreement she had crafted with her attorney that just got sent to mine just before latest crisis is now being rewritten. My attorney said they are turning full custody of my youngest over to me with all decision making as well as determination of visitation.

The funny thing is her attorney thinks she is still in the hospital when I know her sister picked her up on Thursday and is staying with her. She also talked to the girls Thursday evening where she stated she was still going to have 50/50 shared custody.

So nothing jives right now. I suspect her lawyer is running with what her father is directing right now and going on his word. My wife has never said anything good about her father in all the years I have known her. He has never expressed any interest in being a grandfather to our daughters either. Because of this I will have a court fight if he gets control of wife. I suspect her will try and force me to sell house and try and get as much as he can without regard to our daughters well being. I can see him justifying using anything wife gets for his own use since he will be taking care of her. He will use what ever he can to fund his retirement at the expense of others.

I know i need to take a deep breath and slow down. I will have to have my attorney monitor the situation and wait to see where it goes with some pre planning. My thoughts right now are to ask for full possession of the house in place of her paying any child support. I will also ask that there be no alimony. I suspect if he does not agree to this then the court will grant it anyhow given to situation.