My W is now an alcoholic. Since her attempt she tied to quit drinking, then tried to moderate. Now she is dangerously out of control. First she hid it from me, then she came home drunk when I was over with the children. She was very threatening (she said she really would kill herself and not just 'cry for help' if she lost the kids, then said she had 'dirt' on me if I tried to take them away). Now she is drinking every night, sometimes black out drunk.
What scared me was last time I saw the kids. She got home stumbling drunk. She drove home.
I personally haven't said a word. At this moment she is nothing but hostile towards me and I feel anything I say will be dismissed. I'm not supporting her or enabling her, I'm just staying as far away as I can and only communicating about the children.
This is a scary spot. If she dies in a car crash I don't want to regret my actions. What am I supposed to do here?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15