I admire the confidence you have been able to find in yourself and what kind of H or father you want to be. You seem to have found the I'm okay either way ground a lot of people struggle to find. It sounds like you guys find yourselves in some stand offs at times. How is your tone when the two of you 'discuss' something you don't agree on? They say a lot of what sets people off in arguements is tone.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10