Sorry to here about this. 14 years is a long time. I suffered alot of PTSD issues after my first tour. I ended up leaving my first marriage during that time. I then worked real hard over the year to overcome alot of issues for my second wife. The sad part is my wife has now a WAW. If you do reconcile know that if he has PTSD it's a long journey. If he has PTSD has your marriage had issues on and off throughout your time together? What makes you think it is PTSD? sorry for all the questions I am new here and don't have much advice on DBing but can maybe help share some light on PTSD.
Me 38 WAW 40 S 10 S 5 M 5 years BD 10/04/14 S 10/04/14