She called this afternoon to get my opinion on her living with her mom with the kids till she saves up some money. Instead of saying what I really felt which was I AM NOT OK because we should all be together as a family in a good home. Instead I replied that I just want to have a good relationship for the kids. I explained I wanted to no longer fight and wanted to communicate better. She was happy to see that my attitude was changing so quickly and her attitude towards me is no longer defensive. She then called at bedtime put the phone on speaker phone as I told the kids a bed time story. It took the sting out of the day.
Me 38 WAW 40 S 10 S 5 M 5 years BD 10/04/14 S 10/04/14
