Oh, one of the productive things I did today? I emailed H to let him I know I was taking him off this optional vision insurance we are both on. It's "open enrollment" month at work where I can make some of those changes. The plan was essentially pay $60 for the insurance over the course of a year, get $100 a year to use towards contact lenses, so you got a free $40/person. However, we have a hard time keeping track each year as to whether or not he's paid me back for his part of the insurance (it all comes out of my paycheck) so I figured, why do this again next year? Takin' him off. He doesn't really need it, it's not like it's the health insurance. I didn't ask him what he thought, or if I should or shouldn't (that's really just temp checking in disguise), just said I was going to do it. We'll see if he has anything to say..


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final