Can I get her back??..

[LoveMyW]

I don't really appreciate being told I am not being honest, when I have given all information about my sitch, and have answered any questions directed toward me honestly, and informatively..

I would really like to hear your reasoning behind your train of thought..

I need to say I'm sorry to you. I was wrong in my approach to you and I truly apologize for my rude comments.

I am a former WS and do have a knowledge of what a wayward is thinking. I certainly see that I didn't help you.

JCred, I accept your apology unreservedly.. I would also like to apologize for my reply to you, as looking back, I may have been a bit harsh myself..

I REALLY don't think she is a WS, but more of a WAW.. The last few days would have been the perfect opportunity for her to "stretch her legs" as it were if there was anything else was happening as the kids wouldn't be in the picture, but AFAIK she has been working extra hours to make more money (backed up by a phone call from work number about the kids), and then not doing much else apart from catching up with friends/family members..

I'm not going to deny the fact that she may be looking, or interested in someone but it hasn't happened yet AFAIK, and after 2/3 months you would have thought something would have surfaced, especially when she has previously told me to "move on" etc..

Another small positive I forgot to mention earlier.. She is picking the kids up from me on Sunday afternoon, and when she does I have the headlight job to do on her car (which will take me a couple of hours).. I told her that I would make the kids tea to save her doing it later, and that I would make some extra so if she was hungry she could have some too.. To my surprise so said that sounds good.. I know it's not much, but cooking something decent was never a strong suit, but one of my 180's is to start cooking something more substantial.. I can cook, but got in to the habit of just making easy stuff instead of cooking up a nice meal..

No expectations, and I will put no pressure in there.. Just a friendly offer of "I have cooked too much" is how I thought of it, and how it came across by the look of it..