WAW - no contact, now refuses therapy, file?

[AWAW]

Thanks, I definitely see the warnings but I'm caught in a tough spot of reconciling without setbacks and waiting for MC to start back up. I guess you would call this walking on eggshells, which really blows, to be honest.

Until we get MC set I am just going to try to keep it light and not force anything. I do have equal optimism that she is sincere just as I have pessimism that she really wants to follow through. So, an on the fence wife is better than a WAW I guess. But only for so long. At some point the needle has to move.

The good news is she agreed to visit my family with me for Thanksgiving which was inconceivable just a week or two ago. At first she said no, then remembered how we recently discussed not seeing our family since our move really impacted us and we would not neglect that in the future. So hopefully we can keep things progressing over the next month and use the holiday as a stepping stone. Fingers crossed.

She has also been saying ILU's lately and has begun talking about plans with friends, holiday party's hosted at our house, and stuff...so there are some positives in there. It is just an awkward time of going from total freedom to living together again, one extreme to the next, so I am glad we at least took those 2 weeks to ease into the return home.

For now, I'm going to continue to focus on my new routine but take advantage of the times we are together by meeting her needs without smothering. It will play out how it is meant to be day by day.