In a few hours, I'll be leaving for a weekend getaway with my brother and 3 friends. It'll be a little road trip and I'm returning on Sunday. It will be a well-needed time away for me.
My W, the thoughtful person she is, bought us some snacks for the road (she gets a discount on her company's products).
I asked her what her plans were with the kids this weekend, and she said she didn't know.
She also pushed for me to ask my parents to come down on Sunday to take the kids back to their house where they can spend the night and return Monday evening. We both agreed that her parents need a break from watching them, and this gives them Monday off.
I thought it was a bit unusual how she was pushing for them to come on Sunday (as early as possible). My hunch is that OM will be in town, and she does not want to ask her parents to watch them. My in-laws told me today that if she asks them to watch the kids (for a day or overnight) this weekend and it's because of the OM, that they will voice their displeasure. I stressed to them not to do anything for my benefit(don't do me any favors), and only do what they feel is right. We'll see where that goes.
But I need to take my mind off all those possibilities. I know my W won't put my kids in any potential harmful situation, even if it's emotionally harmful. I trust her on that.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
