Here is a link to my older post. I highly encourage folks to read it and learn from Starsky's wisdom and experience
What I wrote in my last post:
"Totally great points and love the post. Thank you for sharing. It captures a lot of my feelings and my actions and words with my wife.
But my concern is that I am giving her more opptys to cake eat when she lies on me or when we have fun together. If there were no A, I would agree with you. But with the A in play, it is just cake eating. With that said, I also need to make sure she sees compassion and love at the same time.
She knows that the road back home is paved should she choose to end the A. But, I will and am pursuing a D since to date, she has elected to stay in the A."
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
