I noticed a handwritten statement that he was writing like a will. Appointing his dad as executor, stating I am 49% business, money to go to my DD, and his mom to have some direction of his money too.
WOW….did I ever tell you the story of the love note my ex wrote but never gave to me? She wrote it the day before she told me she wanted out. Yeah…I’m sure the “words” are the same as “actions”.
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I know he is working in his head on figuring out our agreement stuff.
Okay…a guy named Eric Santos runs Powerball in my state. Can you tell me what numbers he has in his head? Just wondering since you know what your BF is thinking…which leads me to ask….can you scan his brain and see when the business deal will be finalized?
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My actions (yes, no, yes, no) are what I understood Michelles approach to saving our R... to not say yes to every offer. It is not done intentionally as a tactic, but to try to withhold "some" dignity and make him do the work he should be doing to GET me.
Honestly, hire a DB coach…have them read ALL your threads and then see what they say about Michelle’s book. FTR, I would be willing to pay for the session – and I am really not kidding.
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Eric, I NEEEEEEEED to see/know that HE chooses me!!
And THERE is the PROBLEM….YOU NEED…and that is exactly how you feel. One day I hope and pray that you understand the difference between NEED and WANT. When you do all of this will make sense to you.
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Eric, please do not see this as disagreement
Not at all…I NO LONGER see it as disagreement.
So my advice will change now…
You are doing wonderful MM. He is coming closer to you. You see everything you are doing is working. Keep doing what you are doing. He will come back.
Better?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
