totally fair point, but my concern is that I am giving her more opptys to cake eat. If there were no A, I would agree with you. But with the A in play, it is just cake eating.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed
