That was fast T2!
I agree completely. None of it is at all under my control nor can it be. I was just so taken aback by the way she was acting and wanted to get it out while it was fresh in my mind. I guess if I can take anything away from it, it's that I really see more than ever how important it is that I keep being there as much as possible for both my girls. My W is becoming less and less the person she used to be before her MLC. I would say it's sad except for the fact that this is who she wants to be. It's her life and she can choose to be whoever she pleases. Whether I like this person more or less than who she used to be is irrelevant. If she really and truly thinks that she is happier living the way she is now that's her choice. All I can do is live my life the way I want and leave the rest up to God.