Lmsm, I can relate to your pain. So sorry you're here in this situation.
Several things I might suggest while we are waiting for the heavy hitters and the vets to come and get involved in your thread.
1) Find Sandi's 37 rules here: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2250607#Post2250607 It was recommended to me that you should save it and eidit it to change the pronouns to your husbands name and read this almost daily for the first week or so. 2) change your signature line to reflect your current marital situation. Including time married, children ages, date of separation, etc. Look at mine below as an example. 3) post often, and post smaller posts. Post on other peoples threads and be patient. You are currently on moderation so your posts are not hitting the board in real time so the replies will come in slowly. 4) if you are religious/Christian I encourage you to visit the prayer circle thread in this section. Feel free to post there, make a request, or just absorb the love that already there.
It's ok. We're here for you.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
