Fears are funny. My biggest fear is seeing my children caught up in the big ball of crazy that is my wife hopping into a 4th marriage w/ a man who is probably all right, but not me. And my kids seeing it. And thinking that it is normal. Truthfully, since I am no longer working on the R w/ my wife, I have MORE time with my children than before. Time to just throw 'em all in the car and watch OU/TX weekend fireworks. Time to go to the pool and swim laps. Good time.
You will not miss out on a big block of their childhood if D happens. Their childhood, however, will be forever changed. That is true, and something we who believe in marriage must deal with in our own way, with forgiveness and humility.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
