I'm still here...just been busy dealing with other things. I'm premenstrual (and i have some serious issues with this)so my H is being as patient as he can be.
meanwhile, i'm still reading...Y@H's story is fascinating to me...I can very well relate to his wife.
H and I are going to looking into a sex therapist. He is reading SSM and i'm glad for that.
I know that we both want this to work out and find a proper compromise/remedy. I think that is awesome...that we both want it.
My sister in law, on the other hand, is finding no compromise with my LD brother. I feel for them, but I can't fix their relationship.