Originally Posted By: bravo61
LMW,
I understand completely that feeling. My W and I will be having a great time and then she will mention something I've done wrong in the past or she spoke to her atty. I politely remind her the past is the past & I'm sorry for the man I was and I would like to have good time. Sounds like you reacted just right and didn't take the bait. In a lot of ways it's like a foster kid, they will test you for a long time before they can trust you. Keep up the good work. Don't give up!!!


Thanks for the support bravo..

Yeah, there have been a few time I have bitten before, but I'm slowly learning not to.. The other one that gets me over the last couple of days is "it hurts/[censored] that the kids aren't here".. I honestly feel like giving a full on reality check and saying something about how she went WAW and I didn't get a chance to see them for almost 3 months.. That would be counterproductive for all involved so I have refrained there too..

Thanks again, and trust me, I don't intend to give up any time soon!!..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..