Well, she works with him every day. She never admitted to anything and absolutely denied any kind of affair. Only said he told her she had a nice butt and she enjoyed the attention. I busted her lying about communicating through Facebook and when I was snooping (tagged her phone so I could read messages) she made her "girls night" plans end up where he was out for drinks for his bday. She did tell me he was there but denied she planned it.....but I watched the messages. I have stopped spying and checking up and try not to even think about it because the thought of it makes rage and want to do stupid things. I'm sure she talks to him at work because she has to. She hasn't went out since . She only does aerobics on Wednesday evenings. Not much else. He is married and she would say "we. Don't talk much. As far as I know, he is happily married"
One of my 180 s is to not worry about OM because there is nothing I can do to keep her from communicating with him at work and if I think about him I back peddle and get severe anxiety.
I feel she was starting an EA and hope it never got physical. ...but I truly believe That she cannot be having a physical affair now unless it's during work hours. And I don't believe that could happen at her work place
Last edited by dying; 10/10/1409:30 AM.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
