I'm still thinking....wish I could stop.....

wondering if it is bad that I want to keep my stand as far as a separation. I feel that if SHE is the one that wants out, SHE should be the one to move out if she truly wants a separation.

I'm sure the separation talk will arise in our next MC meeting as even the counselor seemed to be pushing for ti to give her what she wants to see if it makes up her mind.

I'm thinking that maybe we should NOT do MC until the wife has actually decided that she WANTS to save the marriage .

I hate thinking too much.....

me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15