another thought with a question.....
(yeah, I've been thinking tonight...imagine that)

it seems that since I have been working on the GAL and not initiating conversation much, my wife has been keeping to herself more. example: I used to ask how her day went and she would say "ok" but either shortly after I would inquire about something else at her work day and she would tell me about several things that happened throughout her day at work. over the past day or so I have been trying a 180 of not initiating much conversation. Now, i'll ask how her day was and she will say "ok" or "it was work". she doesn't really say anything else about her day. she doesn't initiate much at all! it's almost like she is doing a 180 on ME. I think i'm going to try initiating talk about her day and see if it makes a difference. I feel like she thinks I'm just being cold or avoiding her. Should I ask her if there is a reason she isn't talking much or should I just try starting conversations?

should I inquire if she has made plans for friday night? if not I was thinking of making my own plans or ask her is she would like to play a board/card game or something. we haven't done that in a couple months....
I kinda miss just staying home and relaxing on friday night because I work 3rd shift and that is like my saturday.

please advise....

Last edited by dying; 10/10/14 08:30 AM.
me-42
w-33
d-3
together-6
m-4yr
6/1/14-w check out
6/15/14-EA?
8/1/14-mc
9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing
9/15/14-w suggest separation
10/17/14 wife is done
12/13/2014 - wife move out
me file 1/1/15