Update

[hoper]

Hello bravehearts,

Well we are going on a vacation..

he asked ..in a casual way/.. he plans to run his second international marathon ...thinking S's school dates may clash with the vacation he was not so serious ...

however we both thought this would be great for S.
so the planning stage gets interesting , fun and exciting..
he seems very excited.

seeing my excitement did tell me this trip is only for our S and don't read anything more into it.almost told him go to hell... who the hell wants to vacation with him anyway..dont do that though. .

Then during planning our itinerary says lets avoid this city,. we can plan it during our next trip..
says my name more often, looks more into my eyes..
though does not do anything special on my birthday..

buys me a personal gift on an official trip abroad..

i just ignored the message and didnt comment either ways on it

so along the last few months he is evidently more centered ..hardly texting at home that is..
ow was hospitalized recently.. didnt rush to her city on a pretend work trip.
though just before we leave he has work in ow city..
makes it a point to talk about his meetings details..making it evident its a work trip..

has not yet told me specifically about commitment..
Right now things are the best they have ever been in the last 5 years so .. so very grateful for that ...

but do want him to be more vocal about his actions..


do i ask him ?

take care