Thought we were happy...Until!! I need advice!

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H has been wanting to talk, as well as I about splitting assets without Attorneys involved but as I was on my way to the gym this Am saw H driving the HW from the place they stay together and it just infuriated me! She meets him at our business when he's done working and they drive to the place he's staying during the divorce then he brings her back in the morning!! All while her kids are at home alone all night! And I'm at home taking care of our son! I've been advised meeting with him would be a horrible idea..he's lied about so many things up to this point how could I believe him wanting to split anything with me and following through? Part of me misses him so much I just want an excuse to see him! But he texted me right after I saw the two of them together...I ignored it, he texted again to find out what time we could meet and wanted to meet at 4:30 which I knew would give him enough time to talk and make it back in time to get HW and take to his place. So I texted him back I couldn't do it now and I don't want to interfere with his taxi time driving her around..and understand he has other priorities and his family understands! I know I shouldn't have said that...and now he's pissed again at me and just said ok, he tried and he got the answer he needed! Not sure what he means by that? I hate this emotional Roller Coaster..I just want him back!! Should I stop talking to him all together?