Wondering if my H ever even thinks about me. It's upsetting when I think that he is in this new R with the OW and that he has the butterflies and excitement that comes with new love. I figure I've just made it easier for him since I set boundary of him not coming over to the house to see D18 or planning to see her when I'm not home. This boundary has only been in effect for 2 weeks so not sure how it will work. All I know is that since I put boundary in place, I no longer get even the occasional, obligatory text saying, "Hope you have a good day". I'm having a difficult time thinking that he is feeling just fine and even enjoying himself with OW and I'm in utter despair.


Me: 54
H: 58
Married: 29 years
Together 33 years
H admitted to A: 5/29/14
H moved out :6/15/14
OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H
D23
D18