As far as H.... What he is thinking/trying/doing.... No one knows. Best guess? (In my best caveman accent)
He mad. He not where he want to be. Plan not turning out. He don't want baby. Ow not so great now. He miss family. He see kids push away. He stuck. He royally f*ck$d.
So he lashes out to release the very emotions with which he can not cope.
So, to him? It's got to be you. He feels bad=must be Might.
Same shid, diff day.
You did great. Don't engage. He's digging for stuff to make him seem like less of a failure....he may very well be the world champion in that. Look at his mess? Who on earth does that?
The star is YOU. Keep your focus there. It's so much more worthy of it.
I, too, would have wanted to send the part you omitted...."GFY".... But you were right to not. ....I guess.