Sometimes one just has to unleash true, uncensored, and unvarnished thoughts to the MLCer and one's feeling about the problem/situation. We cannot just tip toe around all over the place all the time like Tinkerbell. It is very tiring to keep all of that up constantly.
Sometimes we all feel like turning the STFU juice bottle upside down and just let it empty onto the ground.
I do have those moments. Especially tonight when I am feeling particularly overwhelmed, cranky, stressed, and confused. Received a response from Ms. Wonka this morning. To top it off, me and my hot girl are no more. Talk about massive confusion! I digress...
Back to you...
You're doing really good, GGG. It is all on GUBU to finish up with his naval gazing and make a DECISION either way. Yep, I think he is massively afraid of rejection. I suspect it's because he KNOWS how much damage he's done to you, himself and the marriage.
It's hellva way to climb down and own up to your chit. Heck, it took me a while to do this as well after coming on the boards and seeing the MLC forums. Seeing the massive damage caused a seismic shift in my perspective and perception on Ms. Wonka and our relationship.
