I just texted back "I was planning to use the time along to sort things out myself."

She texted back "ok".

I know her convo will be more of the same...i was so unhappy, but this is a big decision, you seem to be taking D lightly; we always do things on your agenda, so this is more of you being controlling, etc.

None of that will help our situation.

I am not taking the D lightly and this breaks my heart. I just cannot share my W with a third party. That is non negotiable. Even if she actually ended it, how would I know? How could I trust her again? She acts all loving and caring now...but I do not trust her or her actions.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed