In limbo, need to figure out next steps (thread #5

[25yearsmlc]

I know. I assumed folks on the forum would object to it.

My pursuit of the D definitely has thrown her off. She has called me at work twice this week (never did that during the past few months) and is being SUPER nice to me, really trying to connect with me. She asked again if I was going to a special yoga class on Friday night (I said I had plans already) and she asked again whether or not she should come with me this weekend to visit my parents (my mom had a severe stroke back in May).

Is your concern that I will be hurt in the end when we get divorced and I have not detached fully from her OR that this approach will not show her that she is losing me? or both?

I have a request. I would like you to quote your DB coach's advice as accurately as possible, verbatim if you can.

Not doubting you, but really wanting clarity on this. Can you do that?
I have great faith in the DB coaches and have only had very positive experiences, with great results.

I'm somewhat confused now. So, if you could let us know just what YOU SAID to your coach and as exactly as possible, quote the coach, it might help us all understand better. Along with the comments, please tell us how You interpreted the comments, and what your DB goal is, at present.

Thanks