my W just texted me in response to the email that I sent with my notes from the mediation. She said she is reading it while on a conference call. She asked if she can drive with me on Monday to pick up the kids from her mom's house (my kids are going to my MIL house tomorrow for the long weekend and I am picking them up on Monday...90+ min drive each way).

Need to figure out how respond to the text (or when I see her tonight)...options include:
- "I am not sure what there is to talk about"
- "Sure"...give her a chance to talk but I know we will be in the "can we just slow this down, i am not having an A, I am not sure how i feel about our M, etc."...will just bring up negative issues if we talk
- "let me think about it"


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed