I did add that he does not have to run away afterwards to the basement (he sometimes does this then comes back 30min later) I told him I would like him to stay just in case a wave of round 2 hits,,,,LOL (no idea who this person talking was,,,but I really really like her)
So... much like earlier in your threads: Experiment and monitor. Instead of giving him the opportunity to leave, do something different? Maybe you bolt out first? and be down there for round 2? .... just a thought?
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The need to blow up has passed..my negative emotions dont linger as long anymore.
Good! Thats progress! Celebrate the small things!
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13