Just met with the mediator. Man, that is a sobering experience. I sent my W the notes from that meeting (she could not make it). As much as I wish we were not going down this path, unfortunately I have no other options as long as she is in an A.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed