Both.

People value most that which is difficult to obtain. She HAS to feel like she is credibly losing you, if she is going to be motivated to change from her "keep both plates spinning on the sticks" waffling course.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)