In limbo, need to figure out next steps (thread #5

[Ahoy]

The yoga story is hilarious, shodan. Glad you can find humor in the situation. It must be hard pursuing a D that you don't really want. But I admire your strength to draw this firm boundary. Some days I wonder if I should initiate a D to force H off the fence. To be honest, I don't know if I want to stay married to someone who could do what he's done to our family, so even if filing meant pushing him away, maybe I'd be okay with that. If it helped open his eyes sooner, and gave us a chance to work on the R, then so be it. But I'm trying to be patient. Especially because I don't have proof of an A, even though all signs point that direction, and he's told me he plans to date.

You sound like you will be fine, no matter what the outcome.