Thanks Ahoy - I was back to no sleeping last night. I cannot figure out how he got it in his head that I was planning on filing. We've only had two real conversations and I feel like during those I must have sounded llike Charlie Brown's teacher with only words like file, lawyer and divorce coming through. I know this probably wasn't classic DBing but I really felt I had to address those misconceptions. And probably not bad to have it in writing in case he starts to drift again.
He has not responded yet. I guess I get to look forward to a day of checking my phone for an answer every 5 minutes. Maybe he wil really startle me and actually call, but I doubt it.
