meligh4, I love your title for this thread.

I loved to read that you are working on you and GAL and doing family things without your H.

US LBS have to continue to move forward, while leaving a door open for our S's if they decide to return and we are still open to a R with them.

It's hard to validate when you want to defend and or correct what the MLC is saying, sometimes we will get it right and sometimes not.

I also got back to loving myself, pampering myself, buying new clothes and under garments, spending extra time getting myself ready.. I also had put me on the back burner when I become a Mom and a wife, this was wrong for me and for my M.
Whatever the outcome, we have to continue to work on being the best we can be. I dont want the old me back or the old M.

My H MLC has been a gift to me in a way...


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW