Wow -- that is verbatim what I would like to write to my H, if only we were communicating about anything important. I'm sure it was hard to come up with the right words, but I think you did a fine job. You're making it clear that you're willing to work, and that the ball is in his court. He will have to take responsibility for the D if that's what he wants.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!