I think I'm getting somewhere with detaching,180,gal then I just hit rock bottom and feel like giving up .
What triggers it is the limited interactions that my kids have with W . And how they normally end up with them getting upset at the way W speaks to them or sometimes due to lack of contact either through text/Facebook etc.
I understand from MIL that W is missing the kids so much , but then can't understand her lack of contact . Wondering if the W is having some sort of breakdown or suffering from depression and it's killing me that I can't help her .
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Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
