Thanks guys. First things first...I like what I am reading, Mighty.
Who knows why he wrote those texts? They do that. Have a little mind zap from time to time? It doesnt matter right now. Cuz you are movin on up to where you need to be. Good on you.
You know, when I was going through all of this, I cycled through the feelings. Thought I had let go on one and then there it would be. Ooops, didnt finish it completely and had to work through it some more.
Eventually, though, I remember just saying to myself, "How is all of this serving you? How is holding onto the crap feelings helping you move forward?" Yea, that was a slap of cold water to the face.
That's when I really got to gettin. It's when I said to myself, "You only get this one life (well, maybe there's more but you know what I mean - LOL!) and I will be damnned if I was going to give anymore to a freakin nutzo.
So, I let him the heck gooooooo. Ba bye. See ya when I see ya. Good luck on your journey. I'm on mine. Let me know when you come through this. Til then...Ur is living her life.
You are getting there, Mighty. It's amazing to watch.
As far as he goes...never say never in terms of being able to have a decent relationship one day. In time, she will really not matter. I have a funny story for another time of my OW. Hee hee.
Keep going, sweetie. I am rooting and hollering for ya!
