Well I'm beginning to wonder whether this is the place to ask for help or advice..

Could someone tell me what I am doing wrong??.. Is my sitch too complicated, am I not explaining things well enough, or it's just a case of no one cares??.. I try to keep everyone updated so they know where my sitch is at.. I've ordered and read DB and DR as everyone says on other post.. I have tried to join in other conversations and give support.. Is none of this good enough??..

I am getting hardly any replies or help so if I am burdening everyone just let me know..


Me:35 W:31
S6 + S9
T: 10 years M: 7 years
BD: 7/2014
S: 8/2014
W has new BF: 12/2014
Still fighting the good fight!!..